James Delin
Providing support and advice for adults trying to make sense of relationships, mental health and ADHD.
I help adults build healthier relationships with themselves so they can create more fulfilling connections with others.
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Relationships with ADHD and insecure attachment can feel like emotional whiplash. This guide unpacks why, what you truly need (hint: not “less neediness”), and how to navigate love without losing yourself. Messy, validating, and real—it’s for anyone who’s ever felt too much and not enough at the same time.
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Insightful articles and personal stories about ADHD, mental health and relationships.
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Our mental health shapes our perception of our lives. Sometimes, we all need a lift, a little reassurance or some validation it's OK not to be OK. Discover how your mental health influences your world and how to improve it.
Ever walk away from a conversation feeling guilty for having needs? This post explores why—tracing it back to internalised shame, dismissive partners, or both. If you’ve been taught your needs are “too much,” this is your reminder: they’re not. You’re allowed to ask. And to be met with care.
Connection is one of the most important elements of human existence. Often, unhealthy dynamics in external relationships stem from how we see and treat ourselves. Learn how to become your favourite version of yourself.
Hard conversations trigger stress responses in the body—fight, flight, freeze, or fawn—regardless of how well they go. Emotional after-care is essential to help your nervous system recalibrate, release stored tension, and reconnect with yourself (and eventually, your partner).